Saturday, December 28, 2013
So we were so excited for the holidays and having you open gifts on Christmas Day.
Since you are old enough now that you have some favorite toys, characters, and things you like, we couldn't wait to see your face.
So yes I think we enjoyed Christmas more then you did I think !! :)
You've been Obsessed with Mickey Mouse so needless to say we got you everything Mickey.
So did everyone else!!
Yes my house now looks like the Disney store with Mickey Mouse characters of every size and shape.
The funny thing is your favorite out of everything was the little Barbie house I got for you and a pair of princess heels that light up.
Maybe your moving on from Mickey to Barbie and all the girly stuff. We shall see. Ok here are some pics!
Posted by Elena at 10:28 AM
Friday, December 27, 2013
IoIv been writing here and there but haven't published it on here since a lot of it isn't finished and unedited.
Iv been keeping track of stuff that you do but just haven't had time to add all the pics and edit all my grammer :)
Every night I think of you as you go to sleep and on all the new and old things that have happened.
So I guess maybe I shouldn't worry about making a perfect post, with all the pics and the right grammer.
I will really try just to write about you and the works around you as i perceive it.
I will just apologize to you now for the writing, misspelling, grammar, and any others mistakes I make on here.
I am writing from my phone, with one hand late at night as I nurse you to sleep.
Ok so after all I figured, better just to do something then never to do it at all cuz it wasn't perfect.
There so much I want to catch up on right now, but it'll take to long so ill just start from here on out and keep you posted on the present.
And slowly fill you in on all the months missed.
Ok so to speed this up
Lets see u are 20 months and soooo much fun. You can say about 40 different words on your own and starting to make short sentences.
Like " where's daddy "
"I want down" let go" gotcha "
Daddy stinky". I tired ' mama I wan boo boo". You run pretty fast
Oh ok I'll get back I think you r waking up
Ill add more soon !
Posted by Elena at 12:40 AM
Monday, September 9, 2013
This is one of the hardest posts I have made.
I considered not, but want you to have memories of her even till the last day.
Sep 5, ( my brothers birthday) thur morning you woke me up to feed you around 730am like usual, after you fell back asleep I glanced at my phone for the time and saw a missed call and a voicemail from my mom from ten min ago.
My mom has never called me that early for no reason.
I knew right at that second that something really bad has happened, I knew one of my grandparents has passed.
Iv been dreading this phone call for so many years now as I knew one day it would come.
I immediately felt sick to my stomach and couldn't breath.
I ran out to the hall way and screamed for your dads name, ( he was downstairs heading out to work).
I collapsed down in the corner and listened to the voicemail.
My mom was crying so hard I couldn't understand, all she kept saying was my name.
I felt so sick I couldn't even cry, I called my mom back and asked. " mom who?? Grandpa or grandma.???? Who?? My mom couldn't even catch her breath to tell me, she kept crying and saying my name, and finally she said.
" Lena, Lena oh god I lost my mom today !! my sweet mom is gone today! oh god" and continued to weep.
As your dad sat terrified next to me not knowing exactly who or what happened. I finally told him, I grabbed my keys and ran over to my moms.
We booked our flights to Chicago Immediately to be next to my grandpa and been here since then.
I felt like it was all a dream, I didn't really even feel like I was in my body, to say the least I was in a weird shock.
iv never had anyone close to me die, never been to a funeral.
Today I will be attending my grandmas. Your great grandmas.
I can't put into words, how I feel or how much I loved her, ( love her).
I can't explain right now how close I was with her and what a big part of my life she was,
I can't explain every memory that is running through my head with her in it.
Thinking of every summer, birthday, and holiday I spent with her.
My dads parents died when I was really young so I never got a chance to know them but my grandma ( grandparents ) helped raised my brother and I. Most of all my happy childhood memories were with them.
She was diagnosed with Alzheimer's about 3 yrs ago and started to decline quickly in the past year.
The morning of the 5th she woke up went to the restroom, my grandpa helped her back in bed and moments later she peacefully passed away with my grandpa by her side.
I want to tell you about all the amazing things about her, but the anticipation of the funeral today makes it hard to say anything else right now.
My heart feels broken and I feel a knot in my stomach. And I strangely enough feel a certain calm and peace right now like she is still here ( maybe she is).
I'm suppose to speak at her funeral today but honestly don't think I will be able to.
Not sure I'm ready to say goodbye out loud just yet. So this is also why I'm writing. Maybe to help with today. Not sure.
I will write more about her and all the good times but have to go now.
You got to meet her one time 9 months ago, here are some pictures as I will put up more ltr
This is a short video of her holding you for the first time
Posted by Elena at 7:51 AM